is it unfair or is it just me?

why is it so hard to find a part time job here? i don't understand why 99% of the places that i saw a vacancy for waiting staff position, they stated clearly that they required experienced waiter/waitress. so what i do is just forget about that place and try to look elsewhere. or perhaps i should have been more persistent and just ask them even if i don't have experience? then they might think that i'm dumb enough not to read the notice carefully? i really don't know. knowing that some of my friends are working and they get like 50 dollars per night just makes me feel so jealous. i wish they could just give me one day of their job so i can earn some money for myself. what else? don't you think there's some sort of discrimination going on around here? when a gal friend of mine went to ask at this place, they said that they don't need anymore staff. but when a guy friend went to ask few days after her, they ask him to leave his resume. one week later, he's hired! now, he's been working every single night since sunday because the boss thinks he brings 'ong' or luck to the restaurant. needless to say, he did have a slight advantage because he had past experience. why do they need to hire experienced staff anyways? if everywhere wants people with experience? then where the hell do beginners find job? it's like i also not asking for much, i don't mind working only one day per week to earn some extra cash! what's more, i'm willing to learn. ok, probably i'm not working hard enough in finding a job since i've only officially went to two places and turned away reading many notices that experience required. well, since i've done the visa, i should at least try a lil harder huh? but i even applied for a few jobs that was adverstised online just that no one called me back. probably will go job hunting again if i wake up early tomorrow.